Save the date for this year’s Day One 5K
Saturday, May 12, 2018
Help close out Sexual Assault Awareness Month with a race to end sexual violence in Rhode Island. Whether you are walking, running, or just enjoying the festivities, you can help make a difference. Come show your support Saturday, May 12th at 10:00 AM (youth race starts at 9:00 AM) in Providence’s historic east side. The race begins and ends at Brown University Athletic Stadium. For more information visit DayOne5K.org.
With more people coming forward – nationally and locally – we expect to see another significant increase in the number of women, men, children, and families needing our help in 2018.
From sexual assault on college campuses to the commercial sexual exploitation of children, Day One will continue to lead efforts to end sexual violence and provide real solutions for victims and for those at risk.
Take a quick look at our year in review!
Day One, the only agency in Rhode Island specifically organized to deal with issues of sexual assault as a community concern, has announced it has been partnering with the Justice Research Institute in Massachusetts on a Look Beneath the Surface Grant from the U.S Department of Health and Human Services and the Administration for Children and Families, to help those affected by human trafficking.
This federal grant will be administered through 2020. Through this grant program, Day One will work with the Justice Research Institute to re-establish the New England Coalition Against Trafficking (NECAT), a regional initiative aimed to raise awareness and combat human trafficking.
“This funding enables us to grow our efforts in combating human trafficking, not only in Rhode Island, but throughout New England and beyond,” said Peg Langhammer, Executive Director of Day One. “Over the next three years, our team will work tirelessly and use this grant to reach as many individuals and families who have been impacted by the horrific crimes of human trafficking.”
Over the next three years, Day One will collaborate with agencies in Rhode Island and throughout New England to provide anti-human trafficking-based training to professional groups and organizations who work closely with vulnerable populations. This partnership will focus on three main objectives – training, identification, and reaching underserved populations.
NECAT will include the following organizations: Connecticut Institute for Refugees and Immigrants (Bridgeport, Conn.), Preble Street (Portland, Maine), The Human Trafficking Initiative (Boston), New Hampshire Human Trafficking Collaborative Task Force (Concord, N.H.), Day One (Providence, R.I.), and Give Way to Freedom (Essex, Vt.).
Since the start of 2017, Day One has served almost 9,000 Rhode Islanders, a 28% increase over the year before. With more people coming forward – nationally and locally – we expect to see another significant increase in the number of women, men, children, and families needing our help in 2018.
Throughout this holiday season and into the new year, we will remain focused on what matters – stopping sexual violence in our community. From sexual assault on college campuses to the commercial sexual exploitation of children, Day One will continue to lead efforts to end sexual violence and provide real solutions for victims and for those at risk.
We cannot do this critical work without you! We hope you will join us in supporting the thousands of Rhode Islanders who come forward each year.
As we look to a new year full of hope and possibility, we are so encouraged by the major changes we are seeing in our communities. People are getting involved like never before.
With your continued support, we can put an end to sexual violence, together. Please join us in making 2018 the year!
#GivingTuesday is about generosity – a day to make a difference in the world at the start of the holiday season. This is the sixth year of #GivingTuesday and the growth is amazing, with over 98 countries raising over 177 million last year alone!
Please join us in celebrating #GivingTuesday November 28th by making a gift to Day One. Every gift has impact and shows your support for life changing work. Whether it is helping us educate students on prevention of sexual violence or working with victims on treatment, your donation truly makes a difference.
The most meaningful gift we can give this holiday season is one that supports our community and brings it together to help build a better world.
#GivingTuesday is also about inspiring action. Social media is a place where people can voice their opinions and views. This #GivingTuesday, join Day One creating a community of hope, unity, and equality. Take an #UNselfie with the sign below. Simply write why you support Day One, snap a photo holding your sign and post to our social media channels. The best #Unselfie posted will win a Day One umbrella!
Make a Gift Today!
Help us show the generosity of our community by making a gift. Consider making a recurring gift. A smaller gift each month can add up and make a big difference! Thank you for supporting Day One in our mission to reduce the prevalence of sexual abuse and violence and helping us to advocate for those affected by it. Make a gift today!
Over the past two weeks, sexual assault and sexual harassment have been hot topics in the media. It is great that the country is talking about these important issues, which are often shied away from and not discussed. Through the Harvey Weinstein news, we have seen that those with power often abuse it to harm others. The notion that individuals with power and money are somehow above the law needs to change. In addition, we know that this does not just happen in Hollywood. It can occur anywhere and to anyone, as we have seen most locally with Representative Teresa Tanzi.
Individuals who come forward to speak out and tell others what has happened to them deserve to be praised. It is never easy for a victim to come forward and report.
People do not report sexual assault and harassment for a variety of reasons. Those who do come forward often face scrutiny and are met with disbelief — even more so when a person of influence or power has committed the abuse. Recovering from sexual assault or abuse may take weeks, months or years. There is no timetable for healing, which is why it often takes time for a victim to come forward. As we saw in the case of Harvey Weinstein, these actions have been happening for decades but victims felt they couldn’t speak up.
Fear is one of the biggest reasons victims do not report. The fear of retaliation from the abuser, fear of losing your job, fear of not knowing what will happen if you report are all reasons. We need to allow victims their space in determining when and how is the right time to report.
As we often say here at Day One, Victims need to be put in the driver’s seat and not be pressured into reporting or naming their abuser. The focus should be on the victim and making sure they are taken care of physically and emotionally. With pressure, we can also see victim blaming. Victim blaming can be as simple as questioning if an event actually occurred or saying “that’s just part of culture.” We need to stop victim blaming and re-traumatizing these victims. When victims see other victims being blamed, it may stop them from reporting for fear of being blamed themselves.
Through the #MeToo campaign, we saw that when others speak up, other victims can feel like they too can come forward. There is strength in numbers. The nation has put a face to the issue in seeing famous actors and actresses say they have been abused. Even locally on your own social media news feeds, people are seeing their neighbors, politicians, friends and family post #MeToo.
It is great to see so many standing together saying “yes this happened to me too,” but we also need to look at this as a conversation to begin a culture change. Millions will continue to post #MeToo until we actually react and stop the behavior from occurring in the first place. The burden should not solely lie on their shoulders. We need to stand together to stop sexual assault. It is important for all to come forward, not just women. Everyone has a role in stopping sexual violence. The movement is starting, just the other day in response to #MeToo, men began posting with #HowIWillChange to take a step toward change.
In having open discussions, we can educate one another on not only how to react when abuse happens, but how to prevent it. What we do and say about the issue of sexual violence matters. By increasing understanding of the issue, we can more effectively respond to survivors, enhance community safety, and ultimately prevent it.
Education needs to be a priority, now more than ever. We need to teach both our youth and adult communities that this kind of behavior is against the law and will not be tolerated. Our entire state and nation needs to take a step back and look at what is right, what is wrong, and what abuse actually is. So often we hear “oh that isn’t assault, it’s just the way it is.” These thoughts need to be changed. We need to learn about bystander intervention and have the confidence to speak up if you see or hear something. We also need to educate everyone on personal boundaries and how to respect each other. Together we can create a culture of equality and respect.